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Hi, I have read the book twice now and I understand that the depression that my husband suffers is a reflection of my inner maleness. I am almost constantly outwardly happy and I have had the feeling for years that I have suppressed unhappiness. I think unconsciously at first. Now I just do it habitually. My father was also depressed and my husband and my father share many traits. He was a good father and a lovely man, and I have no childhood complaints. My husband is a wonderful man. The book says that I need to redirect my reversed depression back into myself. But I don't understand HOW I do that. How do I reclaim the reversed inwardness that's showing in my husband?
You are sincerely trying to know and understand Miross - we are so happy to hear that. Thank you for contacting us. When we discuss issues directly with individuals, we have to go much deeper into the subject matter and usually a counseling session becomes essential. This is because we are to surely eliminate the deep-rooted pattern of behaviors passed through from ancestors.
However since it is not possible to do so with you now, please allow us to share how we perceive the kind of situation that you are facing (based on what you mentioned in your previous email - albeit briefly).
When you view your situation based on the system diagram (as you saw in the book), you are able to see your situation objectively and it will be easy to understand the situation. As you indicated, the depression you see in your husband and your father is the unconsciousness you have hidden inside and thus is reversed outside from your interior and reflected in them. As you may be already aware, you have suppressed/avoided the situation where you yourself become depressed and thus you've had to live as an outwardly happy person. Here we wonder what actually it is that you have despised and tried to conceal/suppress.
It is possible that you have seen "what you have suppressed" in other people around you. Perhaps that is why you have wanted to act as an outwardly and happy person even more. And at the same time perhaps you have deceived yourself by telling youreself that it was your true self. But there is a limit to this and you cannot "act" forever. Being as wise and insightful as you are, you are starting to feel that you cannot live as a "false you" anymore. You want to live being as you truly are (your true self). That is why you have come across Miross and become interested in it.
Couples are usually attracted to each other as they have the same internal wounds, but without knowing this fact. In the third-dimensional world where everything gets reversed, people are not aware of the fact that they have the same wounds and thus this often becomes the reason for their conflicts leading to separation and divorce, as they cannot stop resisting it and continue to hurt each other.
You ask how you can reclaim the reversed inwardness of yours that is showing in your husband. The way to do it is to TRULY understand the fact that your husband and your father (meaning your maleness that you have not been able to see as you have suppressed it) is what you are. This is how to reclaim the reversed inwardness.
Your wonderful husband and your father became depressed as they suppressed their opposite polarities. It is simply all about the "System" and if you can see/observe the situation without any judgment, a sense of right or wrong, emotions or moral sense, the "unconsciousness" of yours (meaning what you see in your husband) will be totally liberated. And naturally this will surely transform your husband (whom you have seen as the reflection of your unconsciousness) without you actively trying to change him (or your father) .
If the world is reversed (as you say in your book), then it’s true that what is happening in our world a reflection of our own emotions or our ego?
Yes.
As we heal, then our view of the world changes?
That is right. Healing or ending inner conflicts changes the world you see, as it is your own universe.
Is this shifting our vibration to a more peaceful realm, thereby releasing the need for aggression?
That is right. Healing or ending inner conflicts changes the world you see, as it is your own universe.
Please explain how our planet can become peaceful using the Miross system.
First of all, I would like to make it clear that aggression does not exist by itself within us. What happens is that we tend to take aggression as something wrong or bad and seek to suppress it by directing our energies towards pacifism. Thus you pray for peace or involve yourselves in peace movements. Moreover, you attempt to end aggression by focusing on peace but what is needed is to see the two simultaneously from the higher dimensional point of view. By doing so, problems including aggression will disappear. Harmonizing and transcending the two is the essence of Miross. I believe my answers to your last 3 questions have already shown you how it is possible to realize peace. Let me further expound on this.
When you hear news of all sorts of problems that are taking place in our society today, do you think that they have nothing to do with you? How about considering this perspective. Your relationships with others—including your family, friends, and people at work—generate various emotions. In turn, these emotions are manifested as different phenomena one after another. What if this chain of relationships evolves to the level of creating social phenomena? Should we go that far, the relationships become so complicated that we no longer have a grasp as to what has brought all this about. However, it is quite possible that your emotions, such as your sense of deficiency or anger, are the very roots of the events occurring in society today.
If this is the case, by rewinding your life and erasing the sense of deficiency and anger in yourself, you will be able to break the chain of reactions that has originated from you. If each and every one of us were to work on ourselves with this understanding, we would have the power to reverse social phenomena. I feel the same applies in realizing peace on earth.
If we use the system to end inner conflicts in each of us, that will change the world that we see and our own universe. Ending conflicts in each and every person is not a farfetched idea. If enough people begin to apply the system as a concrete technique, the aggregate of the results will bring about an instantaneous transformation as we will reach a tipping point. I have seen many such examples but one recent testimonial has shown that an entire school changed because of the principal’s transformation applying Miross. Individual consciousness creates its own network of consciousness, and this collective consciousness works to surely transform the world.
Countries currently in the midst of war or people beset by tragedy may not have what it takes to even begin to think about dismantling or dissecting themselves. That is why those who can do so should act first. I have been communicating Miross with this in mind. Those with whom my thoughts have resonated and who have applied the system have changed and even begun to introduce Miross to others around them. I believe this synergistic ripple effect will become a powerful force to bring about peace and a dramatic transformation of humanity.